I spent my entire weekend going from event to event. It’s not that I’m that outgoing – I’m not – it’s just that everything happened at once, which is how things always seem to happen to me. I’m no victim of life, but my dad once told me I like to have 10 pounds of crap in a five-pound bag at all times, and he’s right. He’s always right. I like it hot. It started with the usual condensed training schedule I have, trying to cram in as many miles as I can when the kids are with their dad, rushing home from work and hoping to get even a little sunlight as I move through the city, stepping through unshoveled sidewalks and the sheets of glass that make up every intersection from now until April. Six miles after work on Wednesday, again on Thursday, barely making it off the bike path with the waning light, humping it up Cliff Avenue as it grew darker and darker, heading east and home, a hot, hot shower and hands stiff with cold. A friend stopped by late Thursday to lament how she was struggling to stay motivated. We did what runners do, which is get out a calendar and start plotting it out – an hour run here, two there, yoga and weights and hill work and moving ever closer to the starting line – and then the finish – as spring approaches. And then when she asked me to join her for a bit on Friday morning, of course I said yes, even though the day game after the night game, as they say, is always a struggle. Ten hours after my evening run, I was out the door for a morning run. Then, as I sat with my coffee before going to work, I remembered I had told another friend we could run at noon. I packed a bag, and did another 5 miles over lunch. If you’re counting, that’s 16 miles in a day and a half, which isn’t that many miles, not really, but it made for a sleepy start to what I already knew would be a busy weekend. A late Christmas party Friday night, and all the work it takes to be “on” all evening, smiling and talking and hoping someone will tell you if there’s lipstick on your teeth. Saturday an easy 12 miles with Karen and Nancy and a bike path full of runners and dog-walkers trying to soak up the sunny, windless day. A trip downtown for coffee with another friend. Dinner with another couple, and street tacos made of jackfruit and plates of hummus and glasses of wine. Tickets to see Rich Show at the Orpheum – watching Patrick move through the crowd of everyone he knows, every emotion played out over his face and felt palm to palm as we sat there. A long sleep. A yoga class with my friend Janna, almost tipping over onto each other as we each tried to do a tricep kickback on one leg and not laugh out loud. “My legs are tired,” I hissed. “And I was overserved last night. I need some water. Now.” An artichoke and red lentil curry, made while putting groceries away. “Quick, open this, if I stop stirring it will burn.” A can of tomatoes handed back. And then again to the Orpheum, to see Lilly Hiatt and then the Drive-By Truckers, running into most of the same people and a stack of others, turning around to see friends seated right behind us, coworkers in the lobby, old friends streaming out from the musical “Heathers” playing next door. A drive home singing terrible radio songs very, very loudly. Two full hours of hitting snooze. Slamming back into Monday morning and meetings and pieces of paper everywhere and to-do lists that need to be updated. Burning up on re-entry, as I call it, when the kids come home after a few days away and we all find our sea legs again, tilting and rocking. Tomato soup and grilled cheese and Oreos for one and a tantrum on the stairs for the other. Not every weekend is like this, and I’d never survive if they were. The 20 minutes I fell asleep hard on the couch on Sunday while Patrick shoveled, after ignoring my half-hearted “do you need help,” were what I needed to make the final push back to the Orpheum, to haul myself to the gym and try, for the billionth time, to drag myself back into a body that has actual muscle tone instead of just hours of endurance. I sat there on Saturday night and felt the music inside me, closed my eyes and listened as the soundtrack to someone else’s entire life played before him, as I found my spot on the album. On Sunday we both listened to songs we’d never heard before, tickets bought on the recommendations of all the people I ask when I need something new to download. There’s something about the collective experience. It’s why we go. It’s hard, as a writer, to find that. Gertrude Stein said, “I write for myself and strangers,” and we all do, at some level. I do. If you think of it any other way, with a specific reader in mind, I worry that you would cater to that viewpoint, anticipate that reaction, and not let yourself just say it, whatever it is. That doesn’t mean you don’t think about your audience – you want people to feel. There’s probably a reason so many writers run – another solitary activity. It’s meditative. Relentless. I wondered there, in the dark of the theater, about what I would write about this week. I wondered as my skin began to crawl and the dark dark climbed over me, which it does sometimes, and I had to turn and say, “I’m having a hard time right now,” and knowing it would be OK. “Do you want to go?” “Not yet.” “Just let me know. We can.” When do you play to the live audience as a runner? In a race? Maybe, maybe in the big ones, Twin Cities with crowds three deep the entire way. Boston. There’s an appeal, the roar of noise in Wellsley pulling you forward. We sat at dinner with friends and talked about our various pursuits. Their yoga and trips and how the struggle is there to find the time while working. They asked about long-distance running. It’s hard to explain it to people who don’t do it. It’s not the distance. It’s not the trail itself or the rocks and roots, the sand, the footing or weather. It’s the solitude. Running for yourself and strangers. Burning up on re-entry when you emerge from the woods and see the crowd. The tiki lights at the finish. The aid station in the middle of the night. The flicker. Jacqueline Palfy is a longtime runner, reader and writer, marathoner, mom and board member of the nonprofit Sioux Falls Area Running Club. Her contributions to the 605 Running Co. blog will appear every other Tuesday. You can follow her on Twitter @runnerJPK or reach her at [email protected]. Story ideas are encouraged.
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Have I peaked yet? Is the best yet to come? I sit here and think about my own personal running journey to this point and what is yet to come and I can’t help but wonder where on the running continuum I sit at age 32. It seems like just yesterday I was 16 and running in my first ever cross country race, a varsity 5K in Watertown. For some reason we (SF Washington) traveled to Watertown for two different meets at entirely different courses – not that I minded. But that wasn’t yesterday at it might feel, that was 15+ years ago – another 15 years from now and I’ll be 47 years old. Time indeed marches on – and not just on the official race clock! This past race season was a busy one. Maybe too busy. In a span of five months from June through October I ran five marathons - including my first trail marathon (I count Deadwood and Crazy Horse as road races even though it is technically a trail) – and my first two ultras (the Black Hills 50-miler & the Newton Hills 30K. Needless to say that by the time fall weather crept into the air my legs were officially dead and tired. Most of November was spent taking a break from any sort of structured training. That is easier said than done when you feel your hard-earned fitness sinking faster than the Titanic after the dance band’s final song. It was worth the break though, as I felt refreshed and reinvigorated for the daily grind of serious training to begin once December rolled around. Thank goodness, as the holiday season would be impossible to bear without some sort of consistent training as a means to stay sane amid the stress – and also as a futile attempt to burn off 10% of the extra calories consumed at Christmas parties and family gatherings. The New Year is a whole new challenge. We are already to the point where our resolutions seem like a questionable idea and the willpower to abide by them fades like a 4:45 PM winter sunset into the horizon on a too cold and too short day. Do you have big plans and confident dreams of the coming spring and summer? It is time to start thinking about what races you want to compete in and what your specific goals might be. It is also time to start working to make those goals a reality! We are in that mid-winter period where if you wait for perfect conditions – the “right time” – you will never even get out the door and will always find a reason not to hit the local fitness center. It might take all the willpower you can muster but you HAVE to get out that door and put in a few miles. It is said that summer bodies are made in the winter. Well spring and summer PR’s are made on cold and windy days in January. Whether on the bike trail, a gravel road, the treadmill in your basement, or a tight indoor track, be a tough Midwestern runner and put a training plan together (or hire a coach) and have the courage and discipline to follow it. You might have a few days where you fall off the wagon and skip your run and eat too much pizza instead. We’ve all been there. Climb back on and take to the modest task of finding joy in a simple run. No matter what it looks like outside and how cold that wind cuts through your hoodie, spring will come and the warm & sunny longer days will be here. Be ready when they arrive! Chris Riley is a teacher, cross country coach and lifelong runner in Belle Fourche, South Dakota. Watch for periodic guest blog posts from Chris and the west river running experience on Blog 605 Benson Langat’s face is wide open when he looks at you. You have to lean forward to hear him talk, he speaks so softly, and he never breaks eye contact. As you ask him a question or answer one from him, he looks right at you, his mouth soft and smiling, and he never interrupts. It’s not what you think of when you imagine someone who is trying to be an elite runner, to knock another three minutes off his half-marathon time to flirt with 1:05 and get closer to a life he didn’t even imagine for himself until after he graduated from high school in Kenya. Langat, 29, grew up outside of Kapsabet, Kenya, on a small goat farm with his family. He was barefoot and played rugby and dreamed of one day coming to the United States, a country he imagined as all bright lights and big cities, a worldview given to him by commercials and television shows. Where he was from, though, there were few ways to get to college in the U.S., and one of them was running. That meant Langat had to transform from being a soccer and rugby player to being a runner, dropping more than 60 pounds along the way. He had a cousin who was running for a coach in New Mexico, and that inspired him. He began running in the mornings at 4 a.m., so nobody could see him. “People thought I was crazy when I started running,” Langat says. “Running in Kenya, you either go pro or not, there’s nothing in between. You train to go run overseas. It’s a job.” He kept it up for a few months, doing what many people do when they decide to become runners: Start, and stop. Try, get frustrated, give up, try again. It’s the story of every runner, from someone at the back of the pack to someone standing on the podium. “I was like do I want to do this, this is very painful,” Langat says. It was, but it was more than that: It was his chance. He met a professional runner who knew his cousin, and he ran with him, taking in the training and the encouragement, building a base and seeing a possible future a little more clearly. At the same time, he took foreign-language tests and the SAT and did well. He had the scores to get into school, and now he needed the times to get on the teams. The next step was to join a running camp, which he did. It’s just what you might imagine: A group of young men living together and running and eating and sleeping like clockwork as they train their bodies. He trained for nearly two years. “This is going to be an opportunity to me to get fast, to get on a plane and get to the U.S.,” Langat says of that time. “Everybody wants to come here, even to visit. I wanted that opportunity.” He got it. He landed in North Carolina to go to school at a junior college, and eventually he was recruited to come to the University of South Dakota. He started out as a miler and 800-meter runner, and he moved to the 5K and 10K when he went to USD. There was a little culture shock. “When I went to Kansas, I was surprised to see a lot of farms,” Langat says. “I thought it was all city lifestyle. I thought maybe America gets their food and everything from South America.” He was also surprised to see poverty in the United States. “You go to the reservation, and there is struggle, and you go to Chicago, and there is struggle,” Langat says. “That shocked me when I came here. For me, I thought everyone was well off, but you have to work.” He acknowledges that people have the same misperceptions about Kenya. He ran, got faster, went to USD and graduated with a double major in business administration and health science in 2014. “I had a lot of time and didn’t know what to do with it,” Langat says. His former coach told him about a store in downtown Sioux Falls, 605 Running Co., and he decided to swing by one day. “I was like, oh, this is cool,” Langat says. He met Greg Koch, one of the owners, and was encouraged to join the group runs, which he did. “I was so out of shape, and it was really hard.” He entered a few races, including the Sioux Falls Half-Marathon, and took second place overall on virtually no training. Then it happened again and he realized, wait, I can still do this. “I started racing and I haven’t looked back,” Langat says. He should – there’s an entire field behind him. Since then he’s run a dozen half-marathons with a personal best of 1:08:23 and a hope of getting closer to the elite time of 1:05. He’s run two marathons, neither of which turned out like he hoped. “The marathon still owes me a lot,” Langat says. As his half-marathon times improved through his own commitment and coaching by 605 Running Co. owner Grant Watley, it opened doors, including one to Skechers, where Langat started as an ambassador and now is a sponsored athlete. “It’s a great opportunity for me,” Langat says, noting that he takes the hard work it requires seriously. Then he sits back for a moment, takes in the magnitude of what it all means. “That was my dream before – to be sponsored,” Langat says. “I used to see people and think, man, I wish that were me. Now, I’m going to be representing this big company. I think about growing up and taking care of my grandpa’s sheep and goats, and now I’m here, trying to represent Skechers. It’s a huge shift.” After the incredulity comes the gratitude. It’s one of his defining characteristics, this near constant pause to give thanks – to his faith, to his friends, to his coaches, to the people on the side of the race course, to anything outside of him that helped him get where he is and be who he is. And then there’s just Benson, and long solo miles, and all the time to think about what he’s accomplishing. “Most of the time, it’s just me,” Langat says. “You think about family. Sometimes I wonder what the roads are thinking about me this pavement. I’m always thinking about how amazing God is, and that’s the time I talk to God, about the opportunity and how life has turned out. From the rural parts of Kenya, from running barefoot to running here.” That doesn’t mean it’s always easy – he calls his training runs some of the best days of his life and some of the worst, just like the rest of us. “I remind myself, it’s just running. Just don’t stop.” The mantra he repeats is ‘patience,’ and it’s what he recommends to people who come into the store and are just starting out. A coach told him you can’t wake up and be fast, it takes time and talent and commitment, and he started out just like anyone – running from one telephone pole to the next. It’s an experience he says helps him relate to others. “When I am fitting someone with a pair of shoes and they say, ‘I am thinking of starting running,’ I say, ‘I know how that would feel,’” Langat says. He wants to inspire and help others like he was. He knows what that difference can do. “I own a pair of shoes,” he says with a laugh. “I only used to wear shoes to go to church. I am thanking God for a lot of things.” Jacqueline Palfy is a longtime runner, reader and writer, marathoner, mom and board member of the nonprofit Sioux Falls Area Running Club. Her contributions to the 605 Running Co. blog will appear every other Tuesday. You can follow her on Twitter @runnerJPK or reach her at [email protected]. Story ideas are encouraged. Sometimes making smart choices when you’re on the go isn’t always easy. Working in Downtown Sioux Falls, we’ve got a great selection of food just steps from our door. Enjoying a meal at a local restaurant shouldn’t get in the way of your fitness goals. With spring races right around the corner many of the runners we talk to at the shop have serious questions about food and eating out. With this in mind I tricked the boss into letting Lizzie Kasparek, MS, RD,LN, sports dietitian with the Sanford Sports Science Institute and myself grab lunch at two different local downtown restaurants. The restaurants we selected were MB Haskett, and Sanaa’s. MB Haskett is known for their changing menu of fresh ingredients. I have always heard great things about Haskett’s from the customers here at the shop. So I was excited to try it for lunch. Sanaa’s is a healthy yet affordable place offering food cooked from scratch using fresh and seasonal ingredients. Their menu also offers food for people with different dietary restrictions such as gluten free, peanut free, vegetarian, or vegan. I am pretty opened minded when it comes to different food, but I was still worried I wouldn’t be able to find something I like, because I haven’t eaten much Mediterranean cuisine. After completing our meal Lizzie and I wished there was an option to just try everything on the menu! Everything looked so good! Both restaurants are made up of mostly if not all healthy options so you can’t go wrong with whatever looks good. Both places do offer a nice variety of desserts too, which are just fine in moderation. Lizzie’s thoughts: “You don’t need to sacrifice to eat healthy, even when you’re eating out. I recommend, and always try to do this myself, to get a source of carbohydrates (grains, vegetables, fruits), a protein, and a fat in a meal. For example at MB Haskett, you can get a variety of sandwiches. Sandwiches have bread (carb), protein (meats), fats (spreads such as avocado, cheese, hummus, etc.) and vegetables (spinach on the bread or get a side salad, etc.). At Sanaa’s, a lot of the options had a meat protein or a vegetarian protein, such as beans, some source of carb from rice, quinoa, or pita, and fats from dressings, hummus, or cheese. I think you should also always listen to what you really want though. If you’re going out and you REALLY want the 3-cheese pita, and you got a salad instead, it probably isn’t going to be satisfying. You can usually share with someone, or order both and get leftovers, or just eat the thing you really wanted and be satisfied with your meal choice, because in the end...its only one meal. If 80% of the time is healthy foods, then it’s okay to eat one single food group that may not be good for your health 20% of the time.” Now the fun part, what we ate! M.B. HaskettI chose the pesto salami sandwich on a whole grain baguette that came with provolone cheese and a good amount of spinach. Verdict: Yum! I loved that the bread was whole grain so it was nice and filling, not too much spinach but they definitely didn't skimp on it either, and a nice ratio of pesto to salami. Lizzie got the "Skippin' Jenny" which was made up of prosciutto, onions, thyme, black eye peas, and two poached eggs, served over brown rice with corn bread. Sanaa'sI got the Shish Tawook which is Chicken breast bits cooked in red sauce with cumin, mustard, garlic and sesame seed paste, served on a bed of basmati rice. I selected the house salad for my side, which is romaine lettuce, parsley, cucumbers, tomatoes, onions and mint with bulgur wheat and garbanzo beans in lemon juice olive oil dressing. Verdict: again, YUM! I would get this over and over again. Lizzie got Mussakhan Fateyer (like a calzone), which had chicken breast bits, sautéed with caramelized onions, roasted sweet red pepper, sun-dried tomatoes, and a mix of seasoning of cilantro and mustard sauce. She selected a mix of two different salads which were the house salad like I had and Tabbouli Salad: Finely chopped parsley, mixed with bulgur wheat, tomatoes, onions and olive oil and lemon juice dressing. Verdict: Very good and filling. Great portion sizes for what you pay for. Kelli Vasquez is Assistant Manager at 605 Running Company. When she isn’t hanging out at store she enjoys spending time with her family and running competitively when she isn’t preggers. She will be periodically contributing to the 605 Running Co. Blog.
I’m sitting in a restaurant in Spearfish, S.D., right now, trying to think about the past year.
In general, I hate the way the end of one year and the beginning of the next means people are expected to take stock of themselves and their lives. I think I do that more often – probably too much, asking myself too many questions and then feeling trapped under the weight of them. But, like anyone else, here I am. It’s Jan. 1, and I’m not who I was on this day last year. I spent New Year’s Eve cross-country skiing with Patrick and Dan and Lisa, who I’ve known for years from running and whom you might know from our “Legends of the Fall” running chat we had earlier this year. They’re great people, and we both know them from different parts of our lives, and it was great to spend the weekend together. They were endlessly patient as they took us around – Patrick has cross-country skied a handful of times. Me? This weekend marked my second and third times – the first time being at a class at The Outdoor Campus several years ago, where my old neighbor Vickie and I decided to give it a try. This time, Dan and Lisa invited us, and we said yes. Found somewhere to stay downtown and packed the car full of everything you might need – snowshoes and a bike and my running gear and the skis and the absurd amount of cold-weather clothing you need for all of these activities. They all have skis – I don’t. So I did what anyone does, which is call Kristina and Barry Hein and ask what they have and what I can borrow. And because they’re who they are, they said yes, whatever we want, and with that I had a set of skis with fancy stickers on them I couldn’t pronounce. We took them to a shop in Spearfish to have them waxed, and the guy gave me a weird look. “Are these yours,” he asked. “I borrowed them from a friend,” I replied. “How much does your friend weight,” he asked. “I don’t know, about 115,” I said. “You know you’re going to smash these skis down,” he said to Patrick. “They’re racing skis.” “No, no, they’re for her,” he replied, pointing to me. The guy laughed, asked a lot of questions about the owner (and of course we talked about how awesome the Heins are, because they are), and then he asked me how much I’ve skied. “Once,” I told him. “Downhill?” “Once, snowboarding.” “OK, well, what’s your sport,” he asked. “Trail running. Ultramarathons.” With that he eased a bit and then proceeded to give me a stack of suggestions about how to stand, how to fall and how I better go on the beginner trails. It was a familiar refrain – Kristina had asked Patrick, “you’re taking her somewhere flat, right?” He wasn’t, not really. We were going wherever Lisa and Dan told us to go, and because they’re fit and fast and awesome, it wasn’t going to be easy. But because I’ve known all these people for so long, because I’ve bonked on a run with them and Patrick has on a ride with them, because they’re funny and patient and kind, I wasn’t worried. I told myself my endurance and sense of adventure would make up for my lack of coordination, and for the most part, that was true. On Sunday, we went to the Dead Ox trailhead and Lisa made us all stand for a photo. That was the last time we saw them for the next three hours. That’s how I wanted it – they’re good, great, and I hate the pressure of slowing someone down. They went and told us there were a few spots it was so steep they sometimes take their skis off. We said we were going to go out for about an hour and a half and then turn around. Dan told me to pretend I was on an elliptical, to get the hang of how to do it. That proved to be the most helpful advice from anyone. It wasn’t as hard as I thought it might be in some ways, and it was harder in others. I couldn’t get up any of the hills without full on dragging myself with the poles. I somehow stepped on my own feet about 10 times. The first time I fell, I went fully up in the air with my skis sticking up. At one point Patrick said, “You have snow on your head.” It was that kind of day. And it was awesome. I fell – and this is a conservative estimate – about 40 times on Sunday. Sometimes I could get myself up OK, sometimes I had to lay there for a minute and figure out which body part attached to a device to move first to untangle myself. Every time, I was laughing. There were a few climbs steeper than I would have liked, and a few times coming back down where I wasn’t sure how I was going to stop and steered myself into the deep snow, or just sat on the back of the skis like a kid, and other times I just sort of fell over to make it stop. “You did better than I thought,” Patrick said. “What were you worried about? My lack of coordination, the cold, the distance, what? Or do you need a write-in answer?” He laughed. “Coordination, mostly,” he said. “You’ll suffer through anything, that I know. I didn’t want you to have to.” I didn’t. I got the hang of it for a bit, then fell out of rhythm, picked it up again, over and over. I’ve never been so sleepy after a sport, except maybe swimming, which gives you that same sort of all over exhaustion. We stopped for lunch together, then tried to climb what turned out to be basically an icy hill to a cliff. We made it close enough to see then just bailed and slid back down on our butts. Lisa made wild rice soup in a crock pot in her hotel room, and we rang in the New Year making fun of each other and talking about movies and drinking wine and eating old Christmas cookies and then all falling asleep by 9. It was perfect. Monday, we went out again, to a flatter and more open trail and did it all again for 2.5 hours, drank a beer in the parking lot after and then went our separate ways. Patrick and I are doing some work right now, then heading to Custer to see other friends, staying in the hills an extra day to avoid driving across the giant state when it’s so, so cold and a little unsafe. We missed the bulk of the bad weather in eastern South Dakota – it was about 30 when we got done today. “We enjoyed a lovely tropical getaway to the Black Hills this holiday,” we joked. It’s true. It was blue, blue sky. No wind. People I love trying something new. Being so tired about two hours into it on Monday, as we stared up a giant hill that Dan and Lisa made easy work of, and I kept sliding backwards. “Just go on,” I told Patrick. “I’ll catch up.” He wouldn’t, of course, and instead offered me a lesson in leverage with some suggestions about better pole placement to actually heave myself up the hill. The look on my face stopped him, and he said, “Or, we could take the skis off and hike to the top.” That’s what we did, carrying all the gear with snow up to my thighs as we trudged for the next maybe 10 minutes. I told myself it was excellent training for Zumbro, where there is a real possibility it could be snowy, and where there will be about 50 miles of power hiking, that I already know. We got to the top, sweating and swearing and then were rewarded with the slowest, gentlest descent, trees on one side, sunny open space on the other, Dan and Lisa at the bottom, taking a photo with the trailhead sign, arms around each other as they squinted into the sun.
“Come here, we’re taking your photo,” Lisa said. “Now kiss.”
It’s how she is – sweet and funny and loving. It’s a great quality and it’s nice to have someone remind us all – we love each other, we’ve all trained together for years, and we’re out here because we want to be. Because it’s a new year with a new start and new goals and dreams and people to pursue them with. Because these are my friends and this is my life, and with everything that changes, a lot of it is exactly the same, just reconfigured. If you ask me what I want in life, what makes me happy, it’s always been impossibly simple: Time outside, with the people I love, doing what we want to do. Reading a book, riding a bike, running a trail, pushing a kid on a swing, a backyard full of the neighbor kids, an evening on the deck with lights and backgammon and Paul Simon playing. Laying in the snow, wondering how to get up when my arms are so, so tired, and the sky is so clear and my head is, too. Standing up and looking down the trail and knowing that every time I fall, no matter how tired I am, I can get up. When I can’t? There’s help. It’s all these people, and they’re willing and always have been. Happy New Year.
Jacqueline Palfy is a longtime runner, reader and writer, marathoner, mom and board member of the nonprofit Sioux Falls Area Running Club. Her contributions to the 605 Running Co. blog will appear every other Tuesday. You can follow her on Twitter @runnerJPK or reach her at [email protected]. Story ideas are encouraged.
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